Botox and labiaplasty

Posted: Saturday 6th March, 2010

I couldn't believe my eyes (again) as I was flicking through the TV channels on Thursday evening and came across yet another excerpt of young women pursuing the holy grail (in this case the perfect vagina).

As I am not an avid reader of Ralph, Playboy or other such magazines, I was unaware that these days the entire body of a women is shown with major digital manipulation and enhancement of the area of the vulva. Everything is displayed all neat and tidy and the finger is being pointed at the Classification Board.

It seems not to matter whether a male is circumcised or not, but a woman must not have any petals showing beyond her outer labia.

Now, it seems our young women, look at their vulva and think any inner labia showing is ugly and disgusting and opt to have it surgically removed.

Unless those bits actually hamper sexual intercourse, that is about as stupid as those women who had botox injected into their feet for Melbourne Cup Race Day, followed by silicone to ensure no pain in their feet!

Would you go around removing the beautiful folds of the petals of a fully blossomed rose because you think it looks better remaining a tight bud??

Ask yourself!

New Products

Posted: Thursday 25th February, 2010

We here at Sassy Vibes have lots of new products gracing our shelves. It seems thatnew pieces have all arrived together.  It does not take people long to discoverwhat's new though, as some pieces are already requiring restocking.

For those who read the blog What a Licker before Christmas, we are delighted to announce we now have the Sqweel oral sex toy in stock.

There are three speeds which provide a good range of sensation, and applying pressure enables you to vary speed. It is a unique sensation and make sure you have the tongues going the right way before applying to the body!

There has also been a few new styles from Fun Factory.  Even though the name is a little off putting, the Fly (which is a very small vibrator) seems to have got the attention of more than a few of you.  FLY is the vibrator for young, bold women with a small budget; this is very much a FUN toy.  Also this is great for those tentative first timers out there.

Lastly,  I recently attended a book launch up at Main Beach, Surfers Paradise.  The book is authored by an Australian - Linda Wilde who resides on the Gold Coast.  It is called "SEX - Do You Want More?  Yes please"

It contains back ground information that is straightforward from the initial stages of communication and what your body language tells others, to experiencing some raunchy, erotic and sexy moments with yourself and each other.  So check it out.

Be My Valentine -Oh Mystic Wand

Posted: Tuesday 2nd February, 2010

Wow!  Who would have thought that the all the hype over the years regarding the Hitachi massager would ever be rivalled by a divine pink Mystic Wand?  Just in time for Valentine's Day, this is one cherub you need to have 

Vibratex has delivered a wonderful, cordless, powerful beauty!

Made of 100% skin-safe silicone, the flexible neck allows this massager to be used at any angle, hitting sweet spots you never even knew you had! 

Two simple buttons adorn the base - one to turn it on/off and one to change the function.

There are three speeds of vibration, two pulses and a graduating pulse too - all of which are extremely powerful!   Comes with a lovely storage bag to keep things neat and discreet.

Go and check out the Divine Mystic Wand now.... (before we run out)

It has lovely Valentine's Day packaging as well.

If you would prefer the black and white version, remember you have choice. 

Read the reviews and you will see - if you want to keep up with the latest and greatest your search is over.

Year 2010

Posted: Saturday 9th January, 2010

I see this year has got off to a great start.  Still the same old issues in the same old papers and probably on the same old news programs on TV.  Don't watch it any more so don't know.

I have decided going into this next decade to look for happier and more uplifting news than what is generally offered.  There is so much out there but it seems no one gets off on it as much as the fear based stuff.

How amazing would it be if we all focussed on what is working in our lives instead of becoming caught up in what is not.

For starters, I am blown away by the amount of totally negative emails forwarded to me this year (already) spelling out doom and gloom of the air, the water, the planet, and any other fear based topic senders have been able to get off on. What a totally mis-informed, disconnected, mis-guided and mis-leading view on life you all have. You keep creating your reality and I'll stick to mine.  Thank you all the same. 

I am breaking out of the mould - since New Year's Day I have been in Sydney and felt the rain, the warmth of the sun, loved the depths of the water at Palm Beach, had smiles from people I do not know, relished in the hugs of children, gone on some great walks and breathed wonderful fresh air every moment of every day.

Gratitude for the obvious flows over into everyday life.  It starts with self!  Have an expansive year!

It's Christmas

Posted: Tuesday 22nd December, 2009

Is it just me, or is this Christmas seemingly less frantic.  Only two more sleeps and I have not come across any stressed out, ill mannered people this year.  Maybe it is me who has changed!  The hustle and bustle of the lead up to Christmas usually leaves its mark in one way or another.  I delight in the fact this year has been more pleasant.  All sales this week have been sent Express Post  and even though our Australia Post have been walking off the job, I understand their deep desire to be heard.  This week is one way to have that happen.  The ire of those who have posted mail and do not understand what it is they are wanting is not necessary.

Enjoy your holidays everyone, make the most of those nearest and dearest with whom you are likely to spend Christmas Day with.  Enjoy the comaderie and the fun and laughter. When I see all excitement through the eyes of the children it is pure joy.  Their delight and elation and rapture at this time makes you feel good.  Sit back and watch, you will see what I mean.  

Thanks for your custom throughout the year, have fun and be safe and happy this holiday season.  

What's your Story, Oh Beloved Vibrator?

Posted: Sunday 22nd November, 2009

I swear in a past life I was treated for 'female hysteria'.  The remedy sounds so freeing and liberating there is no doubt I would have been a candidate!  What we now call 'panic attacks' and 'stress' management' was also treated 'back then' albeit in a novel way.  Doctors used what we now would term "masturbation' techniques to relieve the female body of "congestion of the genitalia' and 'female hysteria' by performing the time-consuming pratice of vulvular stimulation.  The physician performing this treatment sought to achieve “hysterical paroxysm,” which translates today as orgasm. 

Imagine going to the Doctor and achieving massive orgasm as a treatment for something that you never died of, yet never recovered from! Wow, those Doctors (and yes they were all men) had their work cut out.  According to information gleaned from 'them there days' they considered the process 'laborious and 'tedious'.  There are those that would think somethings have not changed much in this modern society we live in.  The art of love making and sensational female orgasmic experience does indeed take some skill and deftness from a willing partner.

The first electronically powered vibrator was invented by Kelsey Stinner in the 1880's.  Didn't they wear all those petticoats and long dresses back then?  Oh yes, that's right .. and no undies!!  Now that would have helped the Doctor access the approriate body parts  more easily would it not? I bet they did not keep in a nurse in the room whilst performing these magical tricks either.

Hamilton Beach, an American Company, then went on to patent the first electric vibrator in 1902.  Many of the extemely popular women's magazines at the time conatined advertisements promoting the fact that "Vibration is Life".  And so the journey of the vibrator claimed its place in society, appearing in catalogues as genuine ways to ease aches and pains.  Then of course it did not take too long for someone to realise that these amazing vibrators gave more than a thrill or two to the lower body parts, yet once their appearance in pornography became known, all advertisements disappeared.  

Imagine, even in modern day society Hitachi must have been scratching their heads when their Hitachi Magic Wand massager became one of the biggest selling electrical vibrators of all time and was touted as the Orgasmic Cadillac of Massagers. Forget the neck and back aches, this was a fast track to orgasmic heaven!

Australia now has its cloned version of the Hitachi Magic Wand known as the Medisil Magic Touch. The only 'female hysteria' I am aware of these days is what occurs as  women venture online or into retail outlets to purchase orgasmic bliss with the aid of one of these amazing pieces of work.  Of course there are those who are very wary and cautious when it comes to orgasmic thrills by way of being plugged into a wall.  For you there is the Vibratex Mystic Wand.  A smaller version which is hand held, has extra benefits, such as surges and pulsing and yet packs no less of a punch as far as depth of vibration goes. The other bonus it is half the price of it's big sisters.

Yes, vibrators have come a long way since the 1880's.  We have moved from common sex toys into the realm of exquisite pleasure product.  From jelly and rubbers and chemical smells to medical grade silicones and elastomers that are colourful and safe to use.  What a ride! 

Sexpo is on this weekend

Posted: Wednesday 28th October, 2009

It is that time of the year again.  SEXPO is on in Sydney at Moore Park and no doubt the next 4 days is going to be a sex-fuelled, fun-filled, drink-fuelled and educative experience. 
There is a notation at the bottom of the Sexpo screen that I found amusing. It states “This show will increase your attractiveness and sexual drive .It contains beautiful women, hunky men, nudity, and crackin’ entertainment.”
I have been wondering how that occurs exactly…. Increases my attractiveness and sexual drive.  I work at Sexpo for many years and certainly did not notice that being an added benefit!!

Anyway it has changed in it’s 12 year history with Sydney.  Back in the beginning there was a lot of fun, titillating exhibitions especially by The Colonel who even graced us one year with snake Tana wrapped around his body.  That was the first time I ever voluntarily touched a snake.
There were the boys with the specially designed four poster bed with all the attachments to  bind you and enter-twine you, there was the Dominatrix  stalking the rows between stands and even Manpower and Jamie Durie were stars at one time.

Over the years  it grew tired ( in my view) and became more sleazy than great entertainment and fun.

It seems with a change of General Manager that  SEXPO may have finally come of age.  For it was no secret the previous promoter was not into the gay community.  This year the gays are included I hear…(?)   Anyway the program is a full one and there is plenty of variety along with action packed options and thrills and spills.

If you are in Sydney and going to check SEXPO out this year make sure you drop by Maxxx Black ‘s stand 60-61,  in the Royal Hall of Industries,  as rumour has it ………. It is spectacular and their wares are sensational value and top quality at that.  Check them out!! AND have fun….

What a Licker!

Posted: Wednesday 14th October, 2009

It seems finding the one sex toy that can perform Oral Sex has finally materialised.  Love Honey in the UK  has on offer a revolutionary product that simulates oral sex with no less than 10 tongues!!!

So get ready to SQWEEL your way into orgasmic bliss.  It is new and exclusive to Love Honey, (designed by an Irishman) and there are more than a few winging their way to the land of Oz.  Research and Development within the confines of Sassy Vibes, has got us on edge waiting for the samples to arrive (purchased at full retail price) so they can be trialled and a report given... we just know how you are waiting to hear  if it works!!!

Check this out...

There are three speeds to this World Exclusive! Sqweel ® which is a revolution in orgasms! The sensational new patent-pending oral sex simulator has a wheel of ten teasing tongues that will lap you to orgasm time and time again. Sorry guys, you may not even be needed for oral sex any more!

Out On A Limb

Posted: Friday 18th September, 2009

Isn't it extraordinary how the Aussie spirit of giving someone a FAIR GO disappears out the door when it comes to someone having committed a crime against, man, woman or child?  For those who have committed these crimes, those who at the time were seriously damaged and disconnected from themselves and life, and imposed themselves on another - I can only feel deep distress and sadness. 

In the case of this man Dennis Ferguson, I am revolted by what he has done, yet he has done the crime, paid the time and now is to be tried and tried again.   He is being tried by neighbourhoods now (which brings out their very own ugly side), tried by the media, tried by society itself.  I do not for one minute condone what that man may have done in his past, however, he has to live somewhere.

He trying to pick up the pieces of his life and live normally.  What is in the past, needs to remain the past.  He is being hounded by people and media like a fox in a fox hunt.  It is a sad reflection on society that we can justify witch hunts. Grown men, fathers, delivering pine coffins, putting signs up on the fence of a  property stating a paedophile lives there.

It appears there is to be no forgiveness, no mercy, no clemency.  This man Ferguson was never exonerated or acquited, he has paid his dues as set out by the Courts of the Land. Yes, what he did is totally unacceptable, but where do you draw the line?  How do you allow for someone to have another go at life, to have the opportunity to prove they can become a better person? 

What makes any of these fathers so different?  They are putting apprehension, fear, horror and panic into their own children's minds of something they have never even experienced!!!.  Their little daughters (according to media) have asked questions about why the man is so bad, with parents making them increasingly distressed and anxious and scared and unable to sleep at night because of the vindictiveness of their very own fathers.

God knows the conversation these little ones have been subjected to as their parents vent their anger, their misconceptions, their hatred and their own inadequacies.  Who is the real perpertrator now? 

These young children's lives are being screwed up by over protective parents going off the deep end being total unrealistic and outrageous in planting all sorts of ridiculous fears into the minds of their little ones.

This has all got so out of hand. Dennis Ferguson is unable to live anywhere, unable to volunteer his time for a charity, unable to walk to the shops for food. His picture has been planted on every television screen, and newspaper in the country, what chance now at reclaiming his life?

You can bet your bottom dollar if I had a sign made up stating "damaged, volatile, ice addict lives here" and placed it on my neighbours fence, I would be in the courts as quick as lightening.

You know even a man who committed heinous crime deserves the chance to become a better person. We all do.  There are ways to handle this situation that can be pro-active, rather than re-active, that can educate and inform our little ones rather than scare the pants off them, that can have them feeling safe and protected and loved, rather than frightened, apprehensive and distrustful of humans ( or in this case 'men').

Here is something I read today spoken by Esther Hicks that is worth thinking about...

"You just cannot kill everybody who doesn't agree with you (or that you don't agree with) You can't do it. You'll kill enough of them, and pretty soon, you'll be down to the nitty gritty that is just you guys, and then you'll start disagreeing with each other... In other words, you cannot get to where you want to be (or have what you want, the way you want it) by pushing against what you do not want - it never, ever works."

Why do Women Lose interest in Sex?

Posted: Sunday 6th September, 2009

Whether young or old  women differ in their responses to sex.  Whether sexual advances from an unwanted admirer, just plain not liking it, to lust, love, marriage, kids and  then to top it off a waning libido.

We are all individual in our responses to sexual activity.  Without generalising too much, as a young teenager there are the tentative sexual advances and steps taken as young girls open themselves to the mysteries and feelings associated with sexual curiousness.

Those who have indulged in a fair share of masturbation and who discovered the wonders and satisfaction of self pleasure from a young age are more in tune with their bodies and therefore have gained insight  into what works and what doesn't. They are more likely to become leaders and guides in their sexual tryst with their partner learning some sexual expertise of their own along the way.

Young women who enjoy using their body image to gain sexual access to another in throes of a fun weekend, possibly are fuelled by alcohol and other substances which relieve inhibitions and they indulge in the moment.  All part of the life experience.

Feelings are a basic component of good sex.  As one matures  sexual interaction is measured by feeling good about it, before, during and after. That is a healthy libido.   After parental responsibilities come into play, plus stresses from work, managing a household, it is natural that desire for sex disappears or simply there is no time to fit it in.  Exhaustion sets in and suddenly the very act where feel good hormones are released through the body, has all but gone.

Of course, previous sour experiences, from sexual abuse and trauma can also be a contributiing factor here.  So can the fact that there are some women who simply do not enjoy sex and do not want it. 

In that case maybe some communication about bedroom skills with a partner and the willingness to guide, ldirect, show and even instruct would help the situation.

So for those women experiencing a marked change in the times they feel like sex as compared to how they used to feel about, something is amiss.

It isn’t cut-and-dry; it is a complex blend of physical and emotional factors, and therefore, a lack of desire can often be attributed to several different causes – not just one problem to be fixed.  

So ask yourself, is it due to relationship issues, boredom, everday life that is getting in the way, or stress, body issues, menopause maybe even medication.

You could always seek the help of a good sexologist.