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Sex Toys and Sensational Self Pleasure
Often skirted around or denied, the topic of self pleasure amongst women is still steeped in suppression. For those willing to explore this is one way to be made whole, to open up, to allow, to grow, expand, and become more of who you are, giving your relationships renewed vigour and meaning as well. Read entire article
From Vibrator to Pleasure Product
"Vibration is life. It will chase away the years like magic."
The vibrator was first invented in the 1860's as a massaging device to assist physicians in the treatment of 'Hysteria', the most common female complaint of the time. By the turn of the Century over a dozen manufacturers were producing portable vibrators for home use.
Considered a psychological disorder, a diagnosis of Hysteria could cover anything from irritability, excessive vaginal fluid, anxiety, sexual passion, to anti-social behaviour. Read the entire article
By Janelle Manton
Recently, I had a photographic session by the very talented Dylan Hodgson for the purpose of PR, a fun experience I would recommend to everyone. However, that is not what I am going to write about today.... What I noticed in going through the disc of fabulous photos is how much I had grown. There was one picture in particular that stopped me in my tracks read article....
Celibacy
It is rather humorous when writing about celibacy to find that one of the meanings of the word is virginity, yet we generally deem those who abstain from sex as ‘celibate’ whether or not they are a nun, a monk, a virgin, divorced or single and unmarried. During conversation with another it is OK to admit having been ‘celibate for a number of years’ but no one generally talks of being an ‘abstainer’. Read article....
Am I OK with how I Perceive Myself?
You know, when we start to like ourselves more, regardless of what we look like externally it becomes more and more clear that whatever our body looks like, all we need to do is feel good. Read More....
Overnight In Copenhagen
Looking down on the street below I am struck by the activity. Bands of youths with hoodies amble up a road to the right, a couple of men in the street below and to the left seem very "high". Read more...
“7 Steps to Re-igniting The Passion In Your Relationship!”
“When you’re always on the look out for new fun and romantic things to do, you will find you are thinking of you partner more, and that alone helps you feel more spontaneous and connected to them,” say Sunshine Coast couple, Cameron & Jayne Miller
The couple say these strategies have transformed their own relationship to the point that it harks back to those heady days when they first met and fell in love. Read more.....Sex Heals
The rush of vitality we can find through sex and orgasm influences us to the point where we feel that life has more meaning, which is one reason why sex has such a powerful attraction and why, when sex is lacking or unsatisfying life can seem dull and empty. Read More ...
Conscious Sexuality
.. ask yourself … when I last had sex was it “intentionally performed or felt”?
I have explored and asked and played with this idea of Conscious Sexuality for some time now and have come to recognise that it means knowing me, accepting me, feeling me within every part of my body, in order for me to fully connect and integrate with the person with whom I am being sexually intimate, thereby having Conscious Sex. Read more ....
There Is More to a Man Than His Penis
Men can be wonderfully, sensual and sensitive in the bedroom and they too have emotional needs. It is indeed a poor reflection on women when men are summed up by their anatomy - their genitals in particular - rather than their sexual ability, sensitivity and competence in the bedroom. Read More...
Guilt & Shame & Life
Succinctly put;
"Guilt says I've done something wrong; shame says there is something wrong with me.
Guilt says I've made a mistake; shame says I am a mistake.
Guilt says what I did was not good; shame says I am no good."
Bradshaw, John (1988). Read more......
Inspired Action - Great Sex
Even with sexual action, I would venture to say that jumping into it, expecting the ACTION to carry the moment, rather than taking the time to be in sensual proximity with the other, coaxing, holding, being together, is nothing more than physical stimulation. Read more.....
ANAL EROTICISM - The Forbidden Sex
The Anus. This is an often avoided or overlooked part of the body. It is filled with nerve endings and like other parts of our sexual body will definitely respond to pleasing touch. Should this lead to penetration , the slower and the more sensuous the better. Read More
Butterfly Released
A poem called "ButterFly Released" submitted by Valerie Kent. Read the Poem
The Inside Passage
I could not help but liken the undulating landscape to the terrain of our own bodies. The peaks and crevices that shape who we are, the crests and vales that rise and dip all over us. How we have openings and passages that contain, hold, emit, taste, hear and see. Read more
Taking the Sexual Initiative
When we start out on the loving and sexual trail, it is so full of emotion that it is almost impossible to contain the feelings of lust, the smile that dances at the corners of the lips, the heart bursting with anticipation every time the phone rings. We ride the waves of ‘being in love’ ....Read more
A Poem for You - Rose Bud
A Poem submitted by Suzanne with the most sensual photograph of a rose bud - Photographer Ken Lees Lord Howe. ....Read the Poem
Orgasm & Oxytocin - the Love Hormone
Do you remember the song back in the late 60's that went
I took my troubles down to Madame Ruth
You know that gypsy with the gold capped tooth
She's got a pad down on 34th and Vine,
Selling little bottles of Love Potion #9. Read more...
Great Sex - Quick Sex - Good Sex
Great sex with your beloved is a private indulgence, a sensual experience and the ultimate luxury. It is difficult to have good sex on an empty heart. Sex is a wonderful part of life. For starters, without it we would not be here! Sex is made up of touch, feeling, aroma, emotion, sound, sight, colour, ritual, imagination and celebration. Read more ...
My Relationship with Addiction
So is addiction a moral problem or a medical condition or merely a lack of self responsibility? Maybe addiction is fundamentally a spiritual condition where one is disconnected from Source. Read more...
and YES I use CONDOMS always
Well, 11 years of marriage and I’m suddenly back out there. Out with all the single people. The fun people, The, what seem to be, sex crazy people. Everyone is ‘at it’. Not only that, they are doing it everywhere and every way you can think of. Along with quite a few ways you probably didn’t. Am I shocked? Read More...
Does Size REALLY Count?
Digging into the archives of memory I recall the many and varied penis sizes I came across, as I wrestled with the elusiveness of love and rode the waves of lust. The drink fuelled romps and the occasional laid back smoky haze. Any romantic interlude, more often than not, was shattered by being reducing into gales of laughter. I was not of course laughing at the size Read More...
Getting to know - YOU
How many books have you read on female sexuality? In getting to know yourself, it amazes how many books are all for the exploration through touch, delivering one liners about masturbation as if most of us have never done it. Read More...
Many Sex Toys Are Toxic
Environmental activist group Greenpeace has called on the European Union to ban sex toys that use chemical plastic softeners containing phthalates. Read More...
Orgasm - do you or don't you
Lack of desire and energy,persistent work pressure and family commitments are some of the many reasons some women have never reached orgasm, or maybe no longer reach orgasm. Read More...
Emanating Sexual Energy
Regardless of work pressures, family commitment and all the hormone and desire fluctuations of menopause, as a midlife woman my sexual desires are as bright as I allow them to be. Read More...
Finding the Elusive G-spot
The Gräfenberg spot or G-spot is a small area in the genital region of women behind the pubic bone which surrounds the urethra. It is under the vaginal front wall just at the back of the pubic bone. Read More...
Life Begins at 40 and SEX is NOT over after 50
When men and women become older there is time to enjoy a new world of sexuality, which is often overlooked in our lustful youth. Healthy seniors tend to become more at ease with themselves, to want to take the time to enjoy their sexual experience, to be more accepting of body image and much more in touch with intimacy. Read More...
New to sensual and intimate products?
If you are feeling tentative and cautious about trying these products then we would recommend that you start with a....click here for more
Flying Solo?
Being without a partner gives many women a wonderful opportunity to explore her sensual and sexual side... click here for more.
Looking To Spice Things Up?
Whether you are 24 or 74 years of age there are an array of sensual products to take your pleasuring to a different level. These days, whether single or have a partner, there are many exciting.....click here for more
Experienced With Sensual Products?
My husband and I use a vibrator as part of our lovemaking. I’m not sure how common this is because it’s not something we’ve ever discussed with friends. But it works brilliantly for us.....click here for more.
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