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A BOOK REVIEW OF THE E-BOOK STROKE BY STROKE

 

It can be said that it is a given that men LOVE hand jobs, however it seems (according to a survey) very few partners know how to do it properly. So is Michael Webb's latest edition worth reading?

Let's find out!

This guide on hand jobs wasn't half bad. Just as there are very good tips  and books out there for men about pleasing a women, women can also benefit from this thorough guide on stroking their man. At least so it seems according to a survey conducted by the author Micahel Webb. 

I've actually seen some writing on this subject by women but naturally the best expert on the subject has to be a man.  Fortunately, Michael is one of the world's leading sex experts and sought advice from his database of over 100,000 men - in order to give us a guide with a difference. 

As I read the book I realized there is so much more to giving an amazing hand job.  A few ordinary strokes might get a guy off, but if you want to be able to give the sort of hand job experience that will have men addicted to you and begging for your hands.... then you need to read this book.

The section on 'setting the stage' helps you understand that with the right plans in place your man's experience will skyrocket.   

Remember always slip, slop and slide. In other words lube it up.  As the book says waterbased lubricants are best  so get some Astroglide or Hydra and if you are wanting some more heat on the situation then grab some MELT

The section on strokes was very thorough and there were a lot more variations than I would have thought.  But the favourite section for me was on all the ways you can take it over the top with some pretty simple things.  The idea about using the base of an electric toothbrush on his testicles was brilliant!   

Places to give a hand job could have been expanded upon a bit but I guess anyone with an imagination (or experience) could come up with dozens or more, places on their own. 

Stroke by Stroke is up there with one of the best books I've read on tips and advice on pleasing your man this way.   Give a man a great hand job and he'll do just about anything for the next one.  This book will teach you exactly how to have that sort of power in your hands!  

For more information, visit: http://m5e5a5k5.handjob.hop.clickbank.net

 

What is it about the personal lives of people in high flying positions that is supposed to induce us to even bothering to give a rip about their indiscretions?  It never ceases to amaze me why people in public office have their personal lives laid bare for all in sundry to pass opinion upon, when what they do in their private lives is actually none of our business, and more to the point who the hell cares?

The media and tabloids have become extremely tiresome (in my opinion) in seeking and publishing 'dirt' on people holding high profile positions (or attempting to).  For me, the issue is more about how are they doing their job, not who they are screwing.   It is about asking the questions as to whether they have they the strengths and ability required to hold down their position, are they able to demonstrate their prowess in the outcomes expected of their position, never mind their prowess in the bedroom.

Once the media gets hold of gossip and innuendo, regarding an affair, then it seems males and females are fair game.  Digging up as much dirt as possible becomes par for the course and there is no end to the way this  'dirt' is uncovered.

Basically, I am not wanting to get into 'right or wrong' about having relations with another who is outside of one's primary relationship.  What I would like to explore is the fact that we as humans have a man made rule that (for religious reasons mostly) says once we enter into a relationship or marriage we are NEVER to look at, want, adore, or become turned on, by anyone other than the person we contracted an agreement with in the first place.  No matter that we, as individuals, change and grow and become very different people along the pathway of life.  From where I sit, it seems it appears we are not allowed any choice, other than to stick with the same partner through thick and thin, and deny the very essence of ourselves, should any feelings arise towards another, because commitment is commitment.  Hmm, that may be so, but it is not ownership!

I am not really for or against marriage, I am merely playing devil's advocate here in simply stating it is as ridiculous to shut down as a human being and deny feelings for our partners, as it is to deny feelings that may arise out of nowhere for someone outside our relationship.  Yes, our western culture demands that when we enter into a relationship, there should be trust, commitment, respect and honour that seals the deal and therefore make makes it forbidden to ever desire another whilst in that relationship. But stuff happens.  How do you ever control energy?  The short answer is you can't!

In my view, entering into a loving relationship does not guarantee that it will last forever.  At the time the decisions are made, they are always with the best of intentions, and for all intents and purposes very much bear the truth and reality of the moment. This can last for a season, an era, or for a lifetime. No wrong or right.  What is, IS.

Even the words used when describing a person who has a dalliance, fire others up to pass judgement (no matter what is hidden in their own closet).  Words like stray, meaning to err, deviate, drift, or unfaithful,  meaning disloyal, adulterous, a cheat, or affair, meaning liaison, intrigue, fling, and adultery, meaning infidelity, unfaithfulness, extramarital sex. For some reason people who are 'witness' to a liaison, seem to think it is their 'God given right' in getting in on the act and stirring the pot.  For me, the liaison is the business of the people who are actually involved and no one else.

In our monogamous society it is frowned upon to become involved with another if we have a primary partner, even though we as humans are certainly capable of loving more than one partner at the one time.  In my experience I know my primary partner felt very much a sense of 'refuge' with me, and it was where I provided a sense of belonging to who he was at the time, however, being very virile he also became attracted to others and had sexual liaisons with them.  At the time this did not please me, as I felt very righteous in claiming that it was certainly not a lack of sex that had him finding some sort of relief or cheer with another.   

Now that I have a more mature outlook on life, I can see he was endlessly addicted to the endorphins. He did not love me any less, rather he was easily lured by the excitement and the experimental thrill.  This is no way affected the way he performed his day job!!!  The lies and deceit are another issue, and were to essentially become part of immense personal growth on both sides.  All of this was certainly no one else's business!

Relationships take courage, because relationships are about truth, respect, communication as well as sex and love. Relationships are about...relating!    An affair is often (although not always), a distraction from the challenges one has to face in a relationship, and ultimately includes a fear of being honest about who you are and what you want.

In closing, I am neither agreeing or disagreeing with those who have sexual relations outside of their primary relationship, nor attempting to say what is right or what is wrong.  It is not for me to judge, after all as I started off saying at the beginning of this writing, whose business is it anyway??

 

 

 

Sexology is the systematic study of human sexuality. Modern sexology is a multidisciplinary field which uses the techniques of fields including biology, medicine, psychology, statistics, epidemiology, pedagogy, sociology, anthropology, and sometimes criminology to bear on its subject.  Sexology studies sexual development and the development of sexual relationships as well as the mechanics of sexual intercourse. It also documents the sexualities of special groups, such as the disabled, child development, adolescents, and the elderly.

It studies human sexual development and the development of sexual relationships as well as the mechanics of sexual intercourse and sexual dysfunction. Sexologists study sexual dysfunctions, disorders, and variations, including such widely varying topics as erectile dysfunction, pedophilia, and sexual orientation.  Sexology encompasses all aspects of sexuality, including attempting to characterise "normal sexuality" and its variants.

Sexology is considered descriptive, not prescriptive: it attempts to document reality, not to prescribe what behavior is suitable, ethical, or moral.

This is a humourous You Tube clip which sums up how little people on the street understand about those who work as sexologists.

 

IKEA has done a series of advertisements for television, some of which would never be shown in Australia.  I did have to giggle about this one from the "Tidy Up"series.  If nothing else the squeels of delight are enough to have YOU smiling.

Now what are you giving and getting for Christmas???

 

This is amazing!

This video is erotic, romantic, sensual, sexual and simply spellbinding.  To be able to at one with another must be so sublime.  As one friend put it, there are so many ways to "make love".

I hope you all enjoy this and take away a small part of the incredible connectivity between this couple to apply in your own relating.