Sassy, Saucy, Seductive and somewhat Salacious Facts

There has to be something said for honest, direct and passionate advice on "How to do it LONGER, BETTER and HOTTER than ever.  I would hasten to add that enjoying sex, being an accommodating lover or just liking it hot and steamy is not a competition!

Did you know that women who love sex actually smell? It is not in a bad way either! When they are in a state of arousal, their body pumps come-and-get-me hormones called pheromones which speak to the male pheromones and then Mother Nature does the rest!

I recall being told that when a female moth wants to attract a male to mate with, she emits scents that males can perceive from long distances. But males also have scents that are attractive to females in varying degrees.

It is often good to be reminded that lots of men find curvy women way more attractive than the skinny girls that some females envy, because they find flesh extremely sexy and sensuous.

Did you realise the more weird the facial expressions during sex, the more passionate your partner is likely to be? Take all those peculiar looks as a compliment, as good sex is sloppy, sweaty and immensely unflattering! Usually we hyperventilate, frown, scream, show our tonsils and do a lot of scrunching up of faces in between gasps and moans.  It is normal!!

The answer is YES! Oral sex does feel better if the pubic hair is shaved off.  It allows for more-skin-to tongue contact without hair getting in the way.  The female is far more exposed to the male and as men are visually orientated, it is a big plus!

Did you know 53% of Australian women admit to having a "friend with benefits" or a "sex buddy" for regular but non-committed sex, at some stage in their lives?  Far from being frowned upon, lots of experts applaud it, saying it is a much safer option than a typical one night stand.

It seems it is incredibly rare to not have an orgasm girl-on-girl.  Yet it's incredibly common for straight women not to have one with their man!

Did you realise that the happier you are out of bed, the more likely you are to want to jump in it?

Accept that it is possible for your partner to truly love you and still not want to always have sex with you.

Don't expect spontaneous desire when it comes to having sex, accept you may need to create it.  It may take a wicked look, or it may take lots of kissing and stroking.  Do whatever it takes!

Now this is good!!  It is said that men fall IN love earlier than women and fall OUT of lover later - they're first in and last out!  Women are last in and first out - falling IN love later and falling OUT of love sooner.

It seems around 50 per cent of women and 75 per cent of men fantasize during sex with a partner. It is mainly at the beginning to increase arousal and at the end to tip us over into orgasm.

"Sorry honey I have a headache" should be "Yes please, I have a migraine"! A Chicago study shows migraine sufferers want sex more than people with other kinds of headaches.  The link between desire and migraines may be because they're both influenced by the brain chemical, serotonin.

Women over forty claim they're having the best sex of their lives and feel more adventurous in bed than they did in their twenties! And it is married women who are having the most fun.

Did you know that people who expect their partners to betray them, will usually do it first themselves!

Bet you didn't know.... Sex figures in only about 5 per cent of women's dreams, but when it does, it tends to be shocking and explicit!!

How is this? Speaking to a girlfriend this woman said "I spent most of my life faking orgasm whenever my partner had one because I thought they wouldn't want to be with me if I didn't.  Then one day I just got fed up.  I told my husband of two years that I'd been faking and was only able to have an orgasm through oral sex; he smiled and said, "I thought so".  Men  aren't  as stupid as you think!!

Footnote:   Much of this information was gleaned from More Hot Sex by Tracey Cox