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The SEX ORACLE contains contributions by Pepper Goldsmith who divulges her sassy sexploits on getting 'back out there' after 11 years of marriage. She has offered to willingly share the highs and lows of her new found freedom.
Monday 8th September, 2008
I kissed a girl ( and I liked it)
The lyric of this song seems to be causing drama in some suburban homes. Whilst at a friend’s place for coffee the subject of this little ditty came up and I was quite astonished to find that this mother of 5 took offense to the song and was worried about the effect it may have on her daughters. Read More......
Thursday 4th September 2008
Long Distance Love –Realistic or Relationship Suicide?
We meet someone and they are so wonderful that the thousands of kilometers between you seem to fade and become inconsequential, to begin with. Reality soon kicks in and you realize that whilst when you’re together the feeling is wonderful, euphoric and exciting , once you are apart (usually for more time than you are together) the feeling becomes loneliness and longing. Read more...
Thursday 21st August, 2008
Monogamy
Love, trust and Monogamy – do they have to go hand in hand? There are so many ways to live your life now and more social understanding is evolving all the time. However, are we still being judged primarily on what we do behind our front doors, or the doors of others? Read More
Friday 8th August, 2008
Ladies and Gentlemen . . . We have a Winner!
Basically though, if a person says that they are not interested in a relationship with you, this will probably also mean they don’t wish to have you masturbate next to them either. Read More
Wednesday 15th July, 2008
Warning! Gay Men are Bad for Your Health
I generally either meet my straight friends for dinner, or just after that time to start a night out, but in the gay community 11pm stands for early evening. So this was the time that I met up with my ‘Dodgy’ (a term of endearment) companion. We met at a club that two other friends worked at. A good plan I thought, 3 birds with one stone. This was the part that became my ultimate downfall. Read More...
Thursday 26th June 2008
Someone Should Tell Us
I’d like to start by saying what a cruel, cruel world we live in. You go along perfectly happy, loving life, enjoy the age that you are, knowing yourself inside out and then….thump! It hits you in the face like a steam train. You got older, and nobody thought to tell you. Read more..
Friday 16th May 2008
Baggy Pants as in Droopy Drawers
I am sitting here at my PC which is at my kitchen window where I can watch the world strut by, especially the hot surfers. I find myself wondering, not for the first time, to whom are baggy pants appealing? Read More ....
Saturday 10th May 2008
All Men Are Bastards!
OK.OK. It’s a rather sweeping statement. I realize they are not all bad. My Dad for instance, is one of the most amazingly kind, honest and reliable men on the planet. And Jon Bon Jovi, he is God after all, is a dedicated family man despite all that goes on around him. Read More ....
Wednesday 30th April 2008
Friends With Benefits
Being single can be lonely from time to time. In between dating opportunities and friends weddings, there can be dry spells. As much as we all love our intimate accessories and derive much pleasure from them, we need that physical interaction from time to time even if it comes without an emotional attachment.
Usually both parties are in a similar situation. No ties, no relationship and readily available for use of the other. No strings, no emotions, just sex. In general very good sex. The holding of hair, pushing the boundaries, all over the house type sex.
Tuesday April 2nd 2008
Going back for a second helping
Learning from our mistakes is part of growing up. It is how we mature. How we become a responsible adult.
In finding our path we take from the many plates offered, and soon realise what works, what feels good, what we want and what we don’t.So, is it ever a good idea to revisit previously discarded paths, or previously discarded relationships? Surely the answer is NO! read more
Sunday March 24th 2008
The Perfect Man - on Paper at Least
In this circumstance it was not possible. So patience prevailed as the chats and emails were exciting, heart stirring and heading in the direction of, “Oh yes, this is it.”
Then we met and it wasn’t there! The chemistry. The spark. It simply wasn’t there. HOW? Read More...
Wednesday 6th February 2008
Sex Education
Explaining how a baby is made is obviously an important part of sexual education, but this is not what adolescents are interested in, nor what they are actually setting out to achieve. Should they have a baby, it is merely the unfortunate outcome of a sexual rendezvous. Read More
Friday 4th January, 2008
Money, Money, Money
Are we sabotaging our emotional happiness and our sexual fulfillment because of what we have been told we should have?
I have lost count of the times I have been advised since my separation, by acquaintances, friends and family members, that ‘you can love a rich man as well as you can love a poor one’. And that ‘it would be nice to get one with money this time’. Read more....
Monday 10th December 2007
How Many is Too Many?
Maybe we are all trying to justify our own number of conquests by comparing it with those of others. Does this mean that we judge people on the amount of partners that they have had? Worse still, are we judging ourselves on the number of different sexual partners as well? Read More...
Wednesday 3rd October 2007
Worst Sex EVER!
We have all had some forgettable sexual encounters….but do you remember the worst one you ever had? I’m sure you do. These awful experiences stay with us for ever. Like a poignant reminder of what to never put up with again! Read More...
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Is It All In The Bed?
Well I have covered some topics in my recent, rampant ramblings, but this one is a real left fielder! Beds. Does the bed that you have sex in depict the sex you will have? Not necessarily the quality, this is usually dependant on other factors…..knowledge, interest level, self centeredness. But does the type of bed have any bearing on the type of sexual encounter? Read more
Monday, August 6, 2007
When is Lust really LOVE?
Not one for matters of the heart usually, I was recently taken by surprise. I am always a happy one night stander, and have always had the masculine capacity to separate sexual escapades from anything emotional…..and yet I was completely laid flat (literally and subjectively) Read more
Monday, June 25, 2007
Let's talk Taboo's
There seem to be several, maybe many, sexual acts that are still considered unmentionable by the wider society. These practices are well used. Being in the industry you come to know these things, and yet even the people who participate remain quiet .... Read More
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
A long time between sexual encounters - or is it?
I am feeling the effects of a sexual drought, after what is now 4 weeks without intimate human contact. Is this a normal reaction I am asking myself or should I really be happier with my pleasure drawer and not dwell on the physical contact? Obviously I am well educated in the self pleasuring aspects of life….. and have all the tools I need for this, but they are no replacement…. that is for sure. Read more....
Friday, May 18, 2007
I am not 'looking' - I am living
I am getting a little tired of everyone I speak to, friends, relatives, complete and utter strangers, asking me if I have 'found anyone yet'! I didn't know that I was supposed to be looking. It's as if they are convinced that I have no chance at being happy unless I am one part of a two piece set. Well HELLOOOOO! I am whole. Complete. And what's more I am very happy. Why is this so hard for people to believe. Read more....
Friday, May 11,2007
The Mile High Club - Sex on a Plane
Tell me why do people feel the need to have sex on planes? This I find puzzling. Certainly that pokey toilet couldn't offer that much heightened excitement? Not when you would have to be a contortionist to first, arrange your clothing in a manner so that your partner in aviation crime can access Read more
Monday, April 30, 2007
Noisy sex - more noise boys
Pepper Goldsmith
It has come to light during a recent escapade that there is a silence falling upon our men folk. This is most disheartening. We, as women, have spent all these years getting in touch with our inner goddesses. Learning how to let them out through the medium of sound during our sexual encounters. Channeling our inner, raw, desires outward via our vocal chords read more...
Saturday, April 21,2007
Cybersex - it is free & fun
Pepper Goldsmith
We can get everything now, as and when we want it, ordered on the internet and delivered straight to our door. Groceries, clothing, household items, intimate accessories, almost anything you can think of, including now it would seem, relationships and sex. We don’t even have to be in the same room to experience intimacy any more. Read more....
Thursday, April 12,2007
Listen Up Men! Shavers - Shaving - Your Choice
Pepper Goldsmith
Referring back to an article from this website about grooming and shaving of the pubic area, I realized that this was mainly aimed at the women out there. Well, I am here to say…… no, demand, that this subject be brought to the attention of the male public. I for one, have had enough of this double standard. Read more.....
Wednesday, March 28,2007
Trim Taut Terrific & Young
Pepper Goldsmith
26! Yeah! We all jumped in sheer delight when one of my girlfriends revealed the age of the previous nights conquest. As she is close to turning 39 we were all suitably impressed. I, so far, have managed 11 yrs my junior, no I won’t tell you his age, haha.
It seems to be ‘the thing’ right now. For many reasons, as far as I can make out. Read more....
Friday, March 16, 2007
Dating Scene
Pepper Goldsmith
Well my launch back into the dating scene was less than amazing. Had to start somewhere. A house party, a friend of a single friend. When all your friends are still married finding a house full of singles is like finding the pot at the end of the rainbow! Having never been shy I picked out my ‘end of marriage sex therapy partner’ quickly and made lingering eye contact. This went on for a while. We then rendezvoused on the dance floor and found that our mouths and bodies locked together very nicely. Read more...
Monday, March 5, 2007
and YES I use CONDOMS always
Pepper Goldsmith
Well, 11 years of marriage and I’m suddenly back out there. Out with all the single people. The fun people, The, what seem to be, sex crazy people. Everyone is ‘at it’. Not only that, they are doing it everywhere and every way you can think of. Along with quite a few ways you probably didn’t. Am I shocked? Read more...
Tuesday, January 31,2007
Virtual Dating
Dodge Taylor
With the introduction of the World Wide Web, dating (and ultimately finding that special someone to settle down, or at least shack up with on a cold and lonely night) has become a fun and semi-anonymous way to test a potential suitor to see if he or she has the goods to get the job done..... - Read More
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Those Office Christmas Parties!
Dodge Taylor
Inhibitions are out the window, work place etiquette is thrown to the way
side and libido’s are out of control… - Read More
Monday, November 26, 2006
Alternative Intercourse
Dodge Taylor
On a recent binge of the “Tequila Kind” in one of my favourite haunts where the music is always pumping and the dance floor is, well… normally crawling with seedy womanisers, I had the pleasure of meeting the most down to earth guy, who based his sexual prowess on being a self proclaimed virgin. - Read More
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
Rusty Trombone
Dodge Taylor
"Our society is one of extreme sexual diversity. Prudes still like to remain secretive about their sometimes wild sexual appetites, while exhibitionists will still lose their jocks at the drop of a hat." - Read More
Stay tuned for more from Dodge Taylor & Pepper Goldsmith in the coming weeks!
