Cybersex - it is free & fun

All the way, the Cyber way
We can get everything now, as and when we want it, ordered on the internet and delivered straight to our door. Groceries, clothing, household items, intimate accessories, almost anything you can think of, including now it would seem, relationships and sex. We don’t even have to be in the same room to experience intimacy any more. Just enter a chat room, start typing and within minutes you have passed 1st base. It happens so quickly. People are going ‘all the way’ all over the world, all by themselves, with multiple partners. Are we becoming a planet of cybersluts?

Double Click and you’re gone
My experience of cybersex has been interesting and varied. From having started a perfectly innocent conversation and ended up between the cybersheets, to having conversations that are heading in that direction from the ready,set, go.
It may start with suggestive comments, a little flirting or straight forward sexual harassment, but you either join in or block and delete.
 
How good would that be in the bar situation. Some guy annoys the hell out of you, offends you or even repulses you and in two clicks he disappears from the bar never to be seen again.
Or the end of that drunken one night stand and you turn to think ‘well that was nice but once was enough’. Two clicks and you don’t have to deal with the ’I had such a great time’ phone call.

Letting your fingers do the walking

I must admit there are obvious difficulties to typing and self pleasuring at the same time. Generally our main typing hand is also the one we use for other activities, therefore typing becomes slow and disjointed. It can be a benefit to take turns. One to type and turn on while the other reads and enjoys and then to swap. Just make sure you type first and read second!

Of course it may all get too much and you need to take the intimacy one stage further. This then steps up to phone sex. When neither of you can type anymore, pick up your phones and dial away. Pop your phones onto speaker and start your verbal descriptions. What you’re doing, how it feels, what you would like your temporary partner to be doing.
With a phone aversion like mine, this, I find, is better after much of the scene has been set over the internet. Then there is more noise making than talking happening, so if you find talking dirty a little intimidating, you are both well on your way and heavy breathing and sounds of pleasure are all that is needed to bring the experience to it’s climax….and yours…and his.

My own reality

Hopefully this will not turn us into a planet of agoraphobics, never leaving our homes. But it’s fun and is better than reality TV, which is all that seems to be on offer on the box.
All we need now is for Apple to bring out a soft cuddly laptop with bionic arms for afterwards. Couple that with a drawer full of toys and a well stocked sperm bank and really the point of men seems to become very vague.

Although I think I’ll still go for the real thing, variety is the spice of a sassy life.

Pepper Goldsmith